We are a love cum arranged couple. I have known P since June 30, 2007. That was our first day of Management School and our first formal introduction or say first ever introduction which was formal (literally in formal business suits). He was a serious-looking normal guy and I was a fun loving cheerful girl who never gave guys a second look. Love was never on the mind, neither mine nor his. Never I had imagined he would be my Husband 4 years down the line.
Our journey began, and we became an acquaintance. Coincidentally during each passing trimester, we were a part of almost of study groups. And we didn’t realize when our fondness grew enough to call it love. Yes, love it was, most of our friends knew whats cooking before we could realize it ourselves.
After a courtship of four and a half years, we finally tied the knot. And its more than 10 years, I had been in love with this man- every day, every minute and every second of my life.
But not anymore, now I always think- Is he still my priority?
I don’t wait every evening for him now or rather miss him throughout the day. Our phone calls also wrap up in 1-2 minutes which used to be hours prior to marriage and at least 10-15 minutes post marriage.
So, what happened? Why I don’t love him like I did a couple of years back?
Is he doing something or rather not doing anything?
No, its all about me, my priorities have changed and moreover, I have found new love.
A new man is there in my life, and I love him to the core. There isn’t any day or the moment he isn’t there on my mind. He is my priority now. With each day my fondness for him is growing and is far more than P.
Unlike P, he is demanding and needs my attention every day, every minute. We love to talk, walk, play and most important have fun. He loves to kiss and cuddle whatever time we are together. He loves me too and doesn’t care what I am wearing or how I look. His love for me isn’t affected if I don’t dress up for him, comb my hair or apply makeup. But never miss to hug and kiss me when I do 😉😉.
We aren’t a very extraordinary couple, it’s just that we love each other’s company and can’t stay away for long. He brings out the child in me and we laugh our hearts out on each and all silly thing we do together.
He is always there with me when P is late from work and we always have a plan together. Our cozy dinner date nights, listening to music, clicking selfies- everything is so much fun and exciting just like any Bollywood movie.
No, I am not dreaming, HE IS FOR REAL.
A man with a golden heart and soul.
I just pray that HE keep loving me like this and WE remain in Love forever.
After all, my love for him is so pure and conditional.
He is a part of me, my heart, my soul, my son.
Happy Month of Love!!
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